For an Armenian man to take a non-Armenian wife is not entirely acceptable but certainly not a great wrong; however, for an Armenian woman to be taken by a non Armenian man is a type of rape. It is an affront to Armenia, to a people, to a culture, and to each man.
When it happens more than once, it is a sign that it is systemic - a form of rape towards a people. It’s not genocide but a form of it: geno-rape.