Doing the “bigger man” as in “being the bigger man” is often seen as Christianity, as in doing what a big man who has nothing to lose would do in a situation. But this is not Christianity, it is worldly and a form of demeaning and establishing and maintaining a sense of superiority by using virtue against people, feigned virtue as a matter of fact, the appearance of it. Christianity is shame, deep repentance, anguish in wrong, tears, self-humiliation, acceptance of it, humility, self debasement, and entrance into heaven as a servant. This is a far cry from the “be the bigger man” framework that is self-centered, ego centric, a form of an evil domination of others. It is of this world, in fact it is of Satan since it is also a show, not in truth. It is a momentary public phenomenon meant to emasculate with precisely the virtues necessary in the situation, but only present in satanic appearances and pseudo feigned form. The Christian can stand tall and say and know that he is a man of God while the “big” man is just strategist to get his way, a small mind and probably small in some capacity that is serious.